Sunday, May 23rd, 2010...10:25 pm
Have A Nice Day
An elderly woman shuffled into my department on Saturday afternoon, while I was assdeep in a late shift and really feeling it. I pretty much ignored her, choosing to fill flower buckets and give the floor a quick sweep. After a few minutes, during which I didn’t see her appear interested in even one item, it was clear she had not come into the store to shop.
“Ma’am, can I help you find something?”
“No. Well, do you know Janet Green*?”
“Yes. She’s a customer of mine. Well, she was. She hasn’t been in for a while. She’s ill.”
“I know. She passed away.”
I was struck silent by grief. Janet and I weren’t friends, exactly, but we were friendly. There was a certain rose that she absolutely loved and I would call her if a shipment came in and her rose was there. I saw her every two weeks or so for over a year. She was always amiable and lovely, quick with a smile and to recognize how hard I was working. Each time she thanked me for taking the time to accommodate her little flower habit.
Janet told me about a year ago that she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. Only 65 and a fit, petite little spitfire, she said she would have surgery, some treatments, and get on with it. I figured if anyone could do it, she could. But she got sicker, when she should have gotten better. And then sicker. And, the last time I called her and she came to get her flowers, she said that she would just come in when she could and I didn’t have to call anymore.
That was nine months ago. I never saw her again. I often wondered how she was doing but didn’t think it appropriate that I call. Apparently, she died last week.
The elderly woman standing before me said that she had just come from Janet’s memorial service. She told me that someone who spoke at the service had mentioned me and my kindness to Janet and how much it had meant to her.
I was floored. I didn’t do anything for her that I wouldn’t have done for any customer who had asked, but it had been enough to matter.
So, tomorrow, even though I hate my job with every fiber of my being, I’m going to make an effort to be nice to everyone I encounter. Just for a day. Just for Janet.
*Not her real name. But based on her real name. So, you know, like a puzzle. To which you will never know the answer.



11 Comments
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May 24th, 2010 at 6:54 am
at the risk of sounding super sappy, it truly amazes me how the little contacts we make in our lives change other people’s.
May 24th, 2010 at 6:55 am
What a great reminder to treat others well! A smile or bright comment does go a long way.
May 24th, 2010 at 9:48 am
Aw, how sad. So sweet that you made a difference and it was so nice that someone came to tell you.
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May 24th, 2010 at 10:04 am
How nice is it that someone was thoughtful enough to at least tell you. I’m sure it was one of those occasions to have mixed feelings?
Anyway, tomorrow is Janet Green Day.
May 24th, 2010 at 12:10 pm
You made me tear up! Condolences to you. Friendly customers who see you as a human being are a rare gem. I know you will miss her and always think of her when you see her signature rose.
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May 24th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
You helped Janet by just being you. How cool is that!
(Does this mean that I have to be nice to people today? Because I’ve failed.)
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May 25th, 2010 at 1:44 pm
you are totally full of the awesome and karma is gonna take excellent care of you. janet says so!
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May 26th, 2010 at 12:17 am
no doubt you made her life a lovelier place.
you shine my friend.
do it for janet.
p.s. miss u
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May 26th, 2010 at 4:07 pm
That’s really nice! And very nice the woman came in to relay that message. Sometimes kindness to strangers stories make me feel like I should be nicer to people who are not strangers, like my husband and my mom, since I’m pretty sure I’m nicer to anyone else other than them!
May 26th, 2010 at 8:58 pm
You just never know when being a normal little nice turns into a big deal for someone else.
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June 4th, 2010 at 12:21 pm
Great story. Sad story. May Janet rest in peace.
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